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Helping women & mothers cultivate intimacy with Jesus and live present to God’s presence. Together, we can embrace our true identities in Christ, fight the lies of the enemy, step into our God-given purpose, and live the abundant life He has for us.
Meet Shelly. She is the picture of perfection: tanned, toned, lovely, poised. She breezes through her life with ease and grace, loved by all. Her wardrobe is impeccable, her smile contagious, her life flawless. She never yells at her children or eats one too many chocolates—she has endless patience and her cup runneth over. She is wise, charming, nurturing, and undoubtedly a super mom and wife.
I have learned the hard way that you can get into dangerous territory when you expect your spouse to be everything for you. The load will be too heavy to bear and will only lead to disappointment and discord.
Ruth Graham says, “It is a foolish woman who expects her husband to be to her that which only Jesus Christ Himself can be: ready to forgive, totally understanding, unendingly patient, invariably tender and loving, unfailing in every area, anticipating every need, and making more than adequate provision. Such expectations put a man under an impossible strain. The same goes for the man who expects too much from his wife.”
I stood in the checkout lane at Costco, my cart filled with the items I needed for the next week or two. The line wasn’t too long, just what you would expect on a normal Wednesday afternoon.
Little did I know that would be the last “normal” shopping experience for a while. The very next day the President held a press conference on the coronavirus that would send the nation into a panic.